I suppose I should start with some sort of introduction. That’s the way of this sort of thing isn’t it? The norm? Lets try that for novelty, as normal social boundaries and constructs are not going to feature heavily on the following pages.

I’m in my late 20’s, and been very sexually active since 16 (Yes I realise that that can be read as ‘slut’ but really, that’s your issue, not mine. There was a 2-year period of celibacy during a rather peculiar relationship.) and I’ve always been very keen on the subject. I work in a sex shop (a posh one) and I’m extensively involved in my local fetish scene.

I spent the first 5 years of my sexually active life believing that I was unable to orgasm. When I did stumble across it one day it was a revelation. And the good news for me: the more you practice, the easier it gets. It is all in the muscles after all. I did carry a heavy heart though, believing as I did that my level of interest in sex was way beyond the norm, and my desire to explore possibilities was perverted. How things have changed! The fetish scene is chiefly responsible for my epiphany, and the people I’ve met both in person and online have been a constant source of interest.

So that’s my backstory. I hope my thoughts are a source of interest.